We have expanded our mission to include issues of sexual assault of adult men. While we continue adding information on this subject, please know that much of the information currently found here can be useful to men who've experienced sexual assault as adults.
If you’re a man whose life has been disrupted by unwanted or abusive sexual experiences, you’re not alone. We’re here to support you in your path to a happier, healthier future.
At least 1 in 6 men have been sexually abused or assaulted.
Chat anonymously within a group, facilitated by a counselor.
Stories of Survivors
Everyone’s story is unique, but you may find that other men’s experiences shed light on your own.
“I can talk about it. It’s still really painful…but if I keep talking about it, something will click…”
“The Army gave me stripes. I got ‘em quick. But I knew I was hiding behind the stripes.”
Walter’s commitment to therapy, meditation and running have propelled him along his path of healing after a decade of sexual abuse as a child.
“…the intersection between being raised Mormon and being gay, but also being a survivor…”
Religious faith has helped restore Raymond’s capacity to trust, and therefore to connect with others. In so doing it is healing the breach created by four years of sexual abuse.
“Being raped, being sexually abused, it’s a small snippet of my story. I have an amazing story.”
“My life is once again filled with light and promise. The darkness, fear, and shame are in my past. I am happy.”
“It happens to everybody from all walks of life […] You can have a great life, and there’s support, there’s people there who will help you.”
“Music is a heartbeat. It keeps me going. It moves me. It shapes me. It creates me. It is who I am.”
Abused by an uncle, but never disconnected from his family’s love, Julio found the strength and courage to forgive.
Tony’s love of acting, and the human connection he found through it, gave him a pathway to healing after he was abused by a mentor.
All groups are facilitated by a counselor. They function just like a chat room: choose an anonymous screen name, enter the group, and start typing. There's no audio or video, and we don't collect any personal information.
