Why Do People Sexually Use or Abuse Children?

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This is a very important question. It’s a question that many people have, and for those who are wondering about a person who used or abused them, it can be a question that’s struggled with for years.

Of course we can’t simply answer this question. But we can offer, based on years of experience and study, some information and reflections on this sensitive issue.

That’s what we do on the page, Why Do People Sexually Use or Abuse Children? in our Online Readings.

There we make some basic points, and some more subtle and complex ones, that we hope you will find useful. To give you a sense of the page, here are its main headings:

  • Why Ask Why?
  • Wanting to Understand (or Not) Depends on One’s Experiences and Feelings
  • No Simple Answers – But Some Common Features
  • Understanding Is Not About Excuses or Forgiveness
  • Understanding Is Not About ‘Demonizing’
  • People Who Sexually Use or Abuse Children Are Complex – And Deeply Confused
  • There’s No Single Path to Sexually Using or Abusing a Child
  • The Other Person’s Experience and Understanding Now
  • Children and Teenagers Who Sexually Use or Abuse Other Children

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